If only I could bottle my little lads' energy and optimism, I could make a ton of money selling the magic potion to parents whose offspring have entered the teen malaise dazed phase.
For example, a couple of weeks back, Melissa told three of the four boys of the Apocalypse that their overnight visit with me pivoted on when (or whether) I painted a bedroom.
They couldn't understand why they would have to stay away while I painted, because they couldn't IMAGINE that I wouldn't want/need their help. They clamored to know why they couldn't.
I will acknowledge that they — even 3-year-old Luke — do a great job staying in the lines when they pull out their crayons to color and/or draw trains and Transformers and SpongeBobs.
I may be a Mike, but I’m no Michelangelo, and I have enough trouble staying in the lines myself when it comes to painting, especially when the wall is bumping up into a popcorn ceiling. I venture to say that the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel would look MUCH different if Michelangelo had had to contend with that nightmarish surface.
Anyway, I knew having them under foot would just rattle my nerves further and increase the shakiness of my unsteady hand. And there was no way I was even tempted to let them try to paint "just a little bit."
In their minds' eyes, you see, they see the walls as canvasses awaiting their talented hands. They don't know how hard it is to paint, especially when one of your main goals is to cover the wall with just one coat.
(And THAT brings up a parenthetical aside: Time was — and it wasn't all that long ago because a sprout like me remembers it — when you could find paint that WOULD cover with just one coat. Now, all paint companies do is prime you with false promises that end up looking more bleached out than Tom Sawyer's whitewash.
(Such as the brand I will leave unnamed as I bare my soul about its claim of being a miracle potion because it includes not only the paint but also the primer.
(I also will not name the chain that sells it because even bad publicity is good — and that chain with the orange sign doesn't deserve any for being the depot of deception with this primed paint, which it implies STRONGLY that it will cover miraculously.
(I'm not one who subscribes to conspiracy theories — I believe that Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone and that ballplayers never would use steroids — but I believe that paint companies have conspired not only to make paint that won't cover but also to jack up the prices for it just to sell paint. [I’ve seen political cover-ups with more sticking power than paint these days.]
(Indeed, some companies used to tout one-coat-covers-all as a selling point, and their paint did cover. Now, all of a sudden, even premium brands admit right on the can [not in the commercials though, because those aim to suck you into the store] that you might need four coats. They charge more to cover less to sell more. It's a vicious cycle.
(That ends my parenthetical rant: Just don't believe everything TV commercials say about paint with primer in it. You’ll end up paraphrasing and echoing Roy Scheider in “Jaws,” in one of my all-time favorite movie lines. Instead of "You're gonna need a bigger boat," the mantra should be: "You're gonna need another coat.")
So the boys were going to help. Well, I’ve seen their work, and even though I think their drawings are quite advanced for kids their age, I’ve also seen some very colorful, but errant, jabs at walls, cushions, carpets, etc. Here’s an example of what can happen, although it’s not from my family archives:
Their willingness, though, is a prime example of the difference between the unbridled confidence of youngsters, who believe they can do anything, and we adults, who often feel so beaten down that we can’t do anything.
Such as Vincent’s first experience at a professional baseball game. He was probably around 4 when he went with his mom and dad. He dutifully, and reverently took his baseball glove in case a fly came his way.
As it turned out, he thought that also meant he would be playing in the game.
After sitting patiently through a couple of innings, he turned to his parents and said, “Mommy and Daddy, when am I going in?”
I can identify with that, as I used to imagine being a ballplayer and snagging every grounder and fly hit my way.
Reality set in the day when I was about 10, playing shortstop and a ball scooted through my legs. Imagine my embarrassment when my stepmother’s shout echoed across the field, “MICHAEL JOSEPH TIGHE.”
That pivotal moment changed my fielding skills from being a Hoover to being a sieve.
Of course, Vincent’s epiphany wasn’t as brutal, as his parents gently explained to him that it takes a long time to become a ballplayer, and a team has to hire you. But he quickly lost interest and asked to go home.
So he’ll put off that career decision until another day.
Speaking of kids and decisions, here’s an old joke from an old friend that bears repeating. (She’s not an old friend in the sense of being longtime, but in the sense of being OLD. Her most recent missive to me was how ga-ga she was over Opie making the cover of AARP.)
As kids grow to adulthood, they face the inevitable decision on the facts of life: when to start cussing.
For example, a 7-year-old and a 5-year-old (NOT Vincent and Jack, by the way) are discussing their next step to adulthood.
"You know what?" says the 7-year-old. "I think it's about time we started cussing."
The 5-year-old nods his head in approval, and the 7-year-old continues, "When we go downstairs for breakfast, I'm gonna say something with hell and you say something with ass."
The 5-year-old agrees with enthusiasm.
When the mother (NOT Melissa, by the way) walks into the kitchen and asks the 7-year-old what he wants for breakfast, he replies, "Aw, hell, Mom, I guess I'll have some Cheerios."
WHACK! He flies out of his chair, tumbles across the kitchen floor, gets up, and runs upstairs crying his eyes out, with his mother in hot pursuit, slapping his rear with every step. (That’s PROOF it’s not Melissa, because theirs is a no-spanking household.)
His mom locks him in his room and shouts, "You can stay there until I let you out!"
She then comes back downstairs, looks at the 5-year-old and asks with a stern voice, "And what do YOU want for breakfast, young man?"
"I don't know," he blubbers, "but you can bet your fat ass it won't be Cheerios!"
Ba-da-BUMP!
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Jack the Pack Rat — Ain't That a Kick in the Head
In another era, Jack would have fit right in with the popular Rat Pack.
Well, granted, I’m letting words out of the dictionary to play with themselves because of course I mean packrat. And there isn't anything the 5-year-old packrat won't try to squirrel away.
Jack the Rat (if he adopted a nickname like some other Italians have done over the years) latches onto anything that catches his fancy. And I assure you that everything catches his fancy — from worthless pieces of paper to some of my own prized toys he tries to finagle. (Ain't that a kick in the head?)
Surely I hyperbolize, you say? Jack can't be THAT much of a scrounger.
Consider this: The other day, he asked me to hold a gum wrapper for him.
"Why:" I said, intending to throw it away.
"Because I like the color," he replied, so I tucked it in my pocket because I know from experience that if I didn't, he'd ask for it four hours later, or the next day, and read me the riot act if I didn't have it.
I have seen him pick up plain old rocks and fancy ones; in fact, he stayed with me last night and took home a slug of rocks he pilfered from under my mulch. He also has stowed paperclips, big and small; pieces of wire, straight and tangled; sticks, gnarled and smooth; and on and on and on.
His fascination with saving things hardly stops there, though: When the family celebrated birthdays at a restaurant a couple of weeks back, he insisted — insisted, I tell ya — on taking his leftover ice cream home.
The other day, I was busy elsewhere in the house when he tired of eating his ice cream. Next thing I heard was a crash in the kitchen. I ran to see what caused the clatter and there he was, looking up sheepishly from the pool of melting ice cream as he said, "I was trying to put it in the freezer to save it, Papa Mike."
So I tossed in what little was left with the ice cream he had secreted in the freezer the previous week.
He insists on saving half-eaten sandwiches — sometimes even when all that is left is a pile of crusts – "to finish later." I learned the hard way to heed his wishes because the first time I polished off one of his sandwiches as an ABC lunch for ME, he asked me two hours later where it was — and pitched a fit when I had told him I had eaten it.
Jack doesn't mind biting the hand that feeds him, when the hand that fed him is the same hand that grabbed his sandwich later.
Of course, this food habit will pass before we know it, when he reaches the higher metabolism level at which he will eat everything on his plate and then some.
His 7-year-old brother Vincent already is there; I’m afraid his ears are going to fall off from having his head stuck in the refrigerator foraging for food so often.
Speaking of Vincent and foraging, time was, back when he and I used to run to the tracks to watch trains snake by, we also would walk along the right-of-way and pick up parts that had fallen off the trains (it’s amazing what we found, and I sure hope that many parts don’t fall off of planes). Eventually, I noticed the sign that said I was trespassing on private train property, so we never reached our goal of having enough train parts to make our own engine.
Vincent isn’t such a bone collector as I am, but I have a feeling that Jack’s tendency to save junk is just a hint of things to come. He’ll join me in the Dumpster Diver Hall of Fame in which I am ensconced for, for instance, retrieving a boom box 15 years ago that still plays today, cobbling together a workbench from salvaged wood, claiming as a workbench a really cool table that a store had tossed into the alley, snagging a little cabinet that looked ugly, with its red and black enamel paint job (behold, when I stripped it, I found a beautiful oak piece of furniture I have treasured for these three-plus decades).
I don’t think he’ll follow in my footsteps in not being able to eat food beyond its expiration date though. Just this morning, he turned up his nose at the cereal I proffered him, saying the milk “tasted funny.” Well, the milk HADN’T expired, and it didn’t taste funny to me.
But once he said that, it was like a runaway train, with brother Luke spurning the cereal, too.
I guess some packrats have standards.
But there’ll NEVER be another Rat Pack.
Something else you’ll never see again: All the guests on a TV talk show smoking butts (along with the host, Johnny Carson). George Gobel is a HOOT on this:
Well, granted, I’m letting words out of the dictionary to play with themselves because of course I mean packrat. And there isn't anything the 5-year-old packrat won't try to squirrel away.
Jack the Rat (if he adopted a nickname like some other Italians have done over the years) latches onto anything that catches his fancy. And I assure you that everything catches his fancy — from worthless pieces of paper to some of my own prized toys he tries to finagle. (Ain't that a kick in the head?)
Surely I hyperbolize, you say? Jack can't be THAT much of a scrounger.
Consider this: The other day, he asked me to hold a gum wrapper for him.
"Why:" I said, intending to throw it away.
"Because I like the color," he replied, so I tucked it in my pocket because I know from experience that if I didn't, he'd ask for it four hours later, or the next day, and read me the riot act if I didn't have it.
I have seen him pick up plain old rocks and fancy ones; in fact, he stayed with me last night and took home a slug of rocks he pilfered from under my mulch. He also has stowed paperclips, big and small; pieces of wire, straight and tangled; sticks, gnarled and smooth; and on and on and on.
His fascination with saving things hardly stops there, though: When the family celebrated birthdays at a restaurant a couple of weeks back, he insisted — insisted, I tell ya — on taking his leftover ice cream home.
The other day, I was busy elsewhere in the house when he tired of eating his ice cream. Next thing I heard was a crash in the kitchen. I ran to see what caused the clatter and there he was, looking up sheepishly from the pool of melting ice cream as he said, "I was trying to put it in the freezer to save it, Papa Mike."
So I tossed in what little was left with the ice cream he had secreted in the freezer the previous week.
He insists on saving half-eaten sandwiches — sometimes even when all that is left is a pile of crusts – "to finish later." I learned the hard way to heed his wishes because the first time I polished off one of his sandwiches as an ABC lunch for ME, he asked me two hours later where it was — and pitched a fit when I had told him I had eaten it.
Jack doesn't mind biting the hand that feeds him, when the hand that fed him is the same hand that grabbed his sandwich later.
Of course, this food habit will pass before we know it, when he reaches the higher metabolism level at which he will eat everything on his plate and then some.
His 7-year-old brother Vincent already is there; I’m afraid his ears are going to fall off from having his head stuck in the refrigerator foraging for food so often.
Speaking of Vincent and foraging, time was, back when he and I used to run to the tracks to watch trains snake by, we also would walk along the right-of-way and pick up parts that had fallen off the trains (it’s amazing what we found, and I sure hope that many parts don’t fall off of planes). Eventually, I noticed the sign that said I was trespassing on private train property, so we never reached our goal of having enough train parts to make our own engine.
Vincent isn’t such a bone collector as I am, but I have a feeling that Jack’s tendency to save junk is just a hint of things to come. He’ll join me in the Dumpster Diver Hall of Fame in which I am ensconced for, for instance, retrieving a boom box 15 years ago that still plays today, cobbling together a workbench from salvaged wood, claiming as a workbench a really cool table that a store had tossed into the alley, snagging a little cabinet that looked ugly, with its red and black enamel paint job (behold, when I stripped it, I found a beautiful oak piece of furniture I have treasured for these three-plus decades).
I don’t think he’ll follow in my footsteps in not being able to eat food beyond its expiration date though. Just this morning, he turned up his nose at the cereal I proffered him, saying the milk “tasted funny.” Well, the milk HADN’T expired, and it didn’t taste funny to me.
But once he said that, it was like a runaway train, with brother Luke spurning the cereal, too.
I guess some packrats have standards.
But there’ll NEVER be another Rat Pack.
Something else you’ll never see again: All the guests on a TV talk show smoking butts (along with the host, Johnny Carson). George Gobel is a HOOT on this:
Sunday, June 7, 2009
If Your Toilet's Running, You Better Catch It!
Believe it or ELSE, I'm old enough to recall when auto-flush urinals FIRST arrived on the scene.
At first, we were puzzled about one tiny aspect of the expensive remodeling project at the newspaper where I worked (those where the days, eh?). The conundrum arose when we couldn't find the flush handle.
Well, the men couldn't, anyway, because only urinals had the heat sensors to signal to the flushers that the depositor had just stepped away from the "window." No such luck for the women (and the men who opted for the sitting position), who still had to flush manually (or, if you prefer the feminine form, womanually).
So we men — chivalrous to a fault, then as now — would give our female colleagues tours of the men's restrooms in G-rated demonstrations of how the automatic urinals worked. We would put our hand up to the machine above the urinal, then take it away, with the change in temperature telling the machine to flush away.
Then we all would watch, amazed, as the water roared down the alabaster walls of the urinals. Then we would repeat the process: Hand up, hand down; hand up and down; up, and down.
Sometimes, one of the women would be brave enough to try it. But I often detected a feeling of resentment on the women’s parts, although it never rose to the level of urinal envy, so I dismissed it as a natural human tendency that we had something they didn’t. (Just like we men wish soooooooo much that we could, f’rinstance, experience menopause. And I'll always wonder why that isn't called womenopause.)
I realize now that, perhaps, we should have been fearful instead of flabbergasted at the new machine. And we might have been, if we had only known then what we know now.
Indeed, I am not afraid to state flat-out that automatic toilets have spoiled us to no end. (I speak only as a man in this case, as I have no idea what goes on behind closed doors of women's johns.)
You see, those automatic flushers — now ubiquitous in both men's and women's facilities (I've heard) — have spoiled us. We've become so accustomed to the electronic eyes' being our bathroom butlers that we forget how to flush ourselves.
Oh, not at home. That's not a matter of forgetting so much as a battle of the sexes; personally, I fail to see the need to flush EVERY time.
But out in the rare public facilities that still us manual flushers for one reason or another, many of us men just forget to flush as we zip up to zip off about our business. So the next guy thinks we're rude when we're not; we're actually just spoiled.
Same thing with automatic doors. I learned THAT lesson the day I walked full-tilt into the glass door of a store that didn't have the robotic door openers. I couldn't stop myself in time after I realized the door wasn't opening, and I left a greasy imprint of my face on the window.
So what's all this got to do with grandkids, you say?
For ONE thing, it wasn't all that long ago that, when I was out with Vincent and he needed to go to the can, we had to look far and wide to find one that didn't flush automatically. The autopilots scared him him so much he wouldn’t go NEAR them. (Same thing with the automatic hand dryers.) I think he was afraid of being sucked in.
Of course, now that the lads can flush on their own, they have to learn the art of the appropriate amount of Charmin to pamper their buns.
I was reminded of this the other day when Jack screeched from the bathroom: “Papa MIKE! The toilet is LEAKING.”
I ran in, cursing under my breath (and OVER it), because my concept of a leaky toilet is that either a tank connection is leaking or, even worse, the base is leaking and will require a major fix-it job, including pulling the throne out of the floor.
I was relieved, though, when I turned the corner and saw that the floor was only slightly damp.
The relief grew when Jack said, "OH! Now it's going down."
Of course, we know what that probably means: Some little lad — and I won't name names — had squeezed off more much Charmin than the toilet could chew.
In this case, the toilet fixed itself. And I learned that Jack's definition of leaking is different from mine. So my cup of knowledge runneth over, with his.
P.S.: The following video proves that SOME people have too much time, and toilet paper, on their hands.
At first, we were puzzled about one tiny aspect of the expensive remodeling project at the newspaper where I worked (those where the days, eh?). The conundrum arose when we couldn't find the flush handle.
Well, the men couldn't, anyway, because only urinals had the heat sensors to signal to the flushers that the depositor had just stepped away from the "window." No such luck for the women (and the men who opted for the sitting position), who still had to flush manually (or, if you prefer the feminine form, womanually).
So we men — chivalrous to a fault, then as now — would give our female colleagues tours of the men's restrooms in G-rated demonstrations of how the automatic urinals worked. We would put our hand up to the machine above the urinal, then take it away, with the change in temperature telling the machine to flush away.
Then we all would watch, amazed, as the water roared down the alabaster walls of the urinals. Then we would repeat the process: Hand up, hand down; hand up and down; up, and down.
Sometimes, one of the women would be brave enough to try it. But I often detected a feeling of resentment on the women’s parts, although it never rose to the level of urinal envy, so I dismissed it as a natural human tendency that we had something they didn’t. (Just like we men wish soooooooo much that we could, f’rinstance, experience menopause. And I'll always wonder why that isn't called womenopause.)
I realize now that, perhaps, we should have been fearful instead of flabbergasted at the new machine. And we might have been, if we had only known then what we know now.
Indeed, I am not afraid to state flat-out that automatic toilets have spoiled us to no end. (I speak only as a man in this case, as I have no idea what goes on behind closed doors of women's johns.)
You see, those automatic flushers — now ubiquitous in both men's and women's facilities (I've heard) — have spoiled us. We've become so accustomed to the electronic eyes' being our bathroom butlers that we forget how to flush ourselves.
Oh, not at home. That's not a matter of forgetting so much as a battle of the sexes; personally, I fail to see the need to flush EVERY time.
But out in the rare public facilities that still us manual flushers for one reason or another, many of us men just forget to flush as we zip up to zip off about our business. So the next guy thinks we're rude when we're not; we're actually just spoiled.
Same thing with automatic doors. I learned THAT lesson the day I walked full-tilt into the glass door of a store that didn't have the robotic door openers. I couldn't stop myself in time after I realized the door wasn't opening, and I left a greasy imprint of my face on the window.
So what's all this got to do with grandkids, you say?
For ONE thing, it wasn't all that long ago that, when I was out with Vincent and he needed to go to the can, we had to look far and wide to find one that didn't flush automatically. The autopilots scared him him so much he wouldn’t go NEAR them. (Same thing with the automatic hand dryers.) I think he was afraid of being sucked in.
Of course, now that the lads can flush on their own, they have to learn the art of the appropriate amount of Charmin to pamper their buns.
I was reminded of this the other day when Jack screeched from the bathroom: “Papa MIKE! The toilet is LEAKING.”
I ran in, cursing under my breath (and OVER it), because my concept of a leaky toilet is that either a tank connection is leaking or, even worse, the base is leaking and will require a major fix-it job, including pulling the throne out of the floor.
I was relieved, though, when I turned the corner and saw that the floor was only slightly damp.
The relief grew when Jack said, "OH! Now it's going down."
Of course, we know what that probably means: Some little lad — and I won't name names — had squeezed off more much Charmin than the toilet could chew.
In this case, the toilet fixed itself. And I learned that Jack's definition of leaking is different from mine. So my cup of knowledge runneth over, with his.
P.S.: The following video proves that SOME people have too much time, and toilet paper, on their hands.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
The THOUGHT Counts, When Boys Pick Gifts
The old saw that one man's trash is another man's treasure has NOTHING on my grandsons' parade to present birthday presents to me a couple of days back.
Melissa let each of the lads choose the bling he wanted to give me for my 39th.
Luke approached excitedly and pushed the small package toward me. I carefully undid the ribbon and peeled back the wrapping paper he had helped put on the gift.
BeHOLD: Flarp.
Continuing to ride his wave of excitement, the 3-year-old said, "Can I PLAY with it, Papa Mike?"
"Of course, you can," I said. "Just don't spill it on the floor."
If you're wondering what Flarp Noise Putty is, be prepared for a whiplashed "What'll they think of NEXT?" response, followed quickly by "I wish I'D have thought of that!" Maybe.
Flarp, for the uninitiated, is a Play-Doh-like substance that comes in a little canister. With practice, you can learn how to thrust your fingers into it JUST SO, so that it makes armpit noises, also known as whoopy cushion sounds, also known, in flatulent circles, as farts.
For my money, I favor the armpit technique, if for no other reason than the fact that it doesn't stain anything, while Flarp in a kid's hands is like a fart on a griddle and there will be stains EVERYWHERE. (I won't demonstrate MY technique, because I've got too much class, and I'm opting not to present one from YouTube, but they abound there.)
Of course, I avoided the Flarp stains because I let Luke take it home, and sure 'nuf, his dad was able to show me stains in three places on their carpet next time I visited.
Next in the loot line was Jack, who presented me with his bag and grinned when I withdrew the little stuffed alien figure. Not like the one that terrorized Sig Weaver, but rather the wide-eyed variety of Roswell, N.M.
As I admired it, he suggested, "Maybe you could give me that back for my graduation present."
"GREAT idea," I thought. After ALL, I'd been lying awake nights trying to figure out what to get a 5-year-old for his preschool graduation. That's a milestone, right?
Then came Vincent, the most mature of us (yes, some people say he's more mature than I) when we're out and about. The 7-year-old showed his practical side here, too, as he gave me a little garden rake because he knew I might need one.
And HE didn't ask to use it right away or to get it back.
Patrick, the youngest, at a tad over nine months, didn't give me anything except that odd look he gives me, trying to figure out for SURE whether he trusts me, before he breaks out in that grin and burrows into his mom's or dad's shoulder.
But that look was a gift worth a canister of Flarp any day. But like Luke and Jack, Patrick took the smile home with him.
Fortunately, Melissa also brought a new picture of him for the refrigerator, so the Fab Four are smiling on me, along with their drawings. (Well, obviously, Patrick doesn't have any drawings and, actually, he's got a quizzical look on his face, as if he just dirtied his diapers.)
But the boys, and their photos, are treasures. (And I'm glad Luke took the Flarp home and trashed his own house.)
P.S.: As long as we're on the topics of gastronomical phenomena and education (Jack's graduation day, remember?), I might as well tell you the joke he learned from his Uncle Chris the other day.
Question: What do you call a person who won't fart in public?
Answer: A private tooter.
Ba-da-BUMP!
P.P.S.: As it turned out, I probably spent more on Jack's preschool graduation than my parents did on my high-school graduation. I snagged him enough alien stuff to start his own sector of Roswell.
Melissa let each of the lads choose the bling he wanted to give me for my 39th.
Luke approached excitedly and pushed the small package toward me. I carefully undid the ribbon and peeled back the wrapping paper he had helped put on the gift.
BeHOLD: Flarp.
Continuing to ride his wave of excitement, the 3-year-old said, "Can I PLAY with it, Papa Mike?"
"Of course, you can," I said. "Just don't spill it on the floor."
If you're wondering what Flarp Noise Putty is, be prepared for a whiplashed "What'll they think of NEXT?" response, followed quickly by "I wish I'D have thought of that!" Maybe.
Flarp, for the uninitiated, is a Play-Doh-like substance that comes in a little canister. With practice, you can learn how to thrust your fingers into it JUST SO, so that it makes armpit noises, also known as whoopy cushion sounds, also known, in flatulent circles, as farts.
For my money, I favor the armpit technique, if for no other reason than the fact that it doesn't stain anything, while Flarp in a kid's hands is like a fart on a griddle and there will be stains EVERYWHERE. (I won't demonstrate MY technique, because I've got too much class, and I'm opting not to present one from YouTube, but they abound there.)
Of course, I avoided the Flarp stains because I let Luke take it home, and sure 'nuf, his dad was able to show me stains in three places on their carpet next time I visited.
Next in the loot line was Jack, who presented me with his bag and grinned when I withdrew the little stuffed alien figure. Not like the one that terrorized Sig Weaver, but rather the wide-eyed variety of Roswell, N.M.
As I admired it, he suggested, "Maybe you could give me that back for my graduation present."
"GREAT idea," I thought. After ALL, I'd been lying awake nights trying to figure out what to get a 5-year-old for his preschool graduation. That's a milestone, right?
Then came Vincent, the most mature of us (yes, some people say he's more mature than I) when we're out and about. The 7-year-old showed his practical side here, too, as he gave me a little garden rake because he knew I might need one.
And HE didn't ask to use it right away or to get it back.
Patrick, the youngest, at a tad over nine months, didn't give me anything except that odd look he gives me, trying to figure out for SURE whether he trusts me, before he breaks out in that grin and burrows into his mom's or dad's shoulder.
But that look was a gift worth a canister of Flarp any day. But like Luke and Jack, Patrick took the smile home with him.
Fortunately, Melissa also brought a new picture of him for the refrigerator, so the Fab Four are smiling on me, along with their drawings. (Well, obviously, Patrick doesn't have any drawings and, actually, he's got a quizzical look on his face, as if he just dirtied his diapers.)
But the boys, and their photos, are treasures. (And I'm glad Luke took the Flarp home and trashed his own house.)
P.S.: As long as we're on the topics of gastronomical phenomena and education (Jack's graduation day, remember?), I might as well tell you the joke he learned from his Uncle Chris the other day.
Question: What do you call a person who won't fart in public?
Answer: A private tooter.
Ba-da-BUMP!
P.P.S.: As it turned out, I probably spent more on Jack's preschool graduation than my parents did on my high-school graduation. I snagged him enough alien stuff to start his own sector of Roswell.
Saturday, May 9, 2009
God made moms for special reasons
I confess to being a little lackadaisical of late, not posting an entry in this space for a couple of weeks. I suppose I could blame it on the boys, saying they just haven't done, or said, anything clever, or mischievous. But that would be a lie; they're ALWAYS clever. And, of course, frequently mischievous.
It's just that I have forgotten to chronicle their capers, so my mind is blank when it comes time to connect the dots of their lives. And even though Jack had me in stitches at the pool the other day, who takes a notepad to the pool? And even if I had, I don't have a pen that writes under the water, where I spend most of my time because of my lack of swimming acumen.
Although I feel like I should write something for Mother's Day, I face a conundrum: Put away the fishing poles and park the lads in front of the TV while I turn to the keyboard, or STEAL something somebody else has written.
The clouds parted and the solution beamed down: The column is about the grandkids, so take 'em fishing and let somebody ELSE do the work. The kids won't give a rip some day about whether I've written a blog entry. But, when I'm long dead and buried, the kids will remember that I took 'em fishing.
And they'll realize it's a good memory, so they'll stop what they're doing and take kids fishing, and those kids someday will take the next generation out to drown some worms, and those kids, the next, and pretty soon, the whole damn world will be one big fishing camp instead of camps warring against each other. (And SOME day, even worms and fish will be spared when all lures are artificial and don't have hooks so it will be a sporting exercise signaling that humanity and animals finally are at peace, too.)
I figure peace among all creatures of the is a case of the end justifying the means, so I went fishing to keep that tradition going for awhile, anyway.
Then I turned down the road to perdition, stealing these kid comments from whoever first compiled them for the Web, not to mention those who have irritated family, friends, and foes by forwarding them all over the globe.
The comments are represented as answers second-graders gave to questions about what God had in mind in creating moms. I don't know whether that's true or somebody made them up, but at least I'm being upfront about it:
Why did God make mothers?
1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is.
2. Mostly to clean the house.
3. To help us out of there when we were getting born.
How did God make mothers?
1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us.
2. Magic plus super powers and a lot of stirring.
3. God made my mom just the same like he made me. He just used bigger parts.
What ingredients are mothers made of?
1. God makes mothers out of clouds and angel hair and everything nice in the world — and one dab of mean.
2. They had to get their start from men's bones. Then they mostly use string, I think.
Why did God give you your mother and not some other mom?
1. We're related.
2. God knew she likes me a lot more than other people's moms like me.
What kind of a little girl was your mom?
1. My mom has always been my mom and none of that other stuff.
2. I don't know because I wasn't there, but my guess would be pretty bossy.
3. They say she used to be nice.
What did mom need to know about dad before she married him?
1. His last name.
2. She had to know his background. Like is he a crook? Does he get drunk on beer?
3. Does he make at least $800 a year? Did he say NO to drugs and YES to chores?
Why did your mom marry your dad?
1. My dad makes the best spaghetti in the world. And my mom eats a lot.
2. She got too old to do anything else with him.
3. My grandma says that mom didn't have her thinking cap on.
Who's the boss at your house?
1. Mom doesn't want to be boss, but she has to because dad's such a goof ball.
2. Mom. You can tell by room inspection. She sees the stuff under the bed.
3. I guess mom is, but only because she has a lot more to do than dad.
What's the difference between moms and dads?
1. Moms work at work and work at home and dads just go to work at work.
2. Moms know how to talk to teachers without scaring them.
3. Dads are taller and stronger, but moms have all the real power 'cause that's who you got to ask if you want to sleep over at your friends..
4. Moms have magic — they make you feel better without medicine.
What does your mom do in her spare time?
1. Mothers don't do spare time.
2. To hear her tell it, she pays bills all day long.
What would it take to make your mom perfect?
1. On the inside she's already perfect. Outside, I think some kind of plastic surgery.
2. Diet. You know, her hair. I'd diet, maybe blue.
If you could change one thing about your mom, what would it be?
1. She has this weird thing about me keeping my room clean. I'd get rid of that.
2. I'd make my mom smarter. Then she would know it was my sister who did it not me.
3. I would like for her to get rid of those invisible eyes on the back of her head.
I find it kind of amazing that, although many of those observations are gut-busters, many are spot on.
With that, I'll say: Happy Mother's Day to all you moms out there.
Let's end it with a message from comedian Jeff Dunham:
It's just that I have forgotten to chronicle their capers, so my mind is blank when it comes time to connect the dots of their lives. And even though Jack had me in stitches at the pool the other day, who takes a notepad to the pool? And even if I had, I don't have a pen that writes under the water, where I spend most of my time because of my lack of swimming acumen.
Although I feel like I should write something for Mother's Day, I face a conundrum: Put away the fishing poles and park the lads in front of the TV while I turn to the keyboard, or STEAL something somebody else has written.
The clouds parted and the solution beamed down: The column is about the grandkids, so take 'em fishing and let somebody ELSE do the work. The kids won't give a rip some day about whether I've written a blog entry. But, when I'm long dead and buried, the kids will remember that I took 'em fishing.
And they'll realize it's a good memory, so they'll stop what they're doing and take kids fishing, and those kids someday will take the next generation out to drown some worms, and those kids, the next, and pretty soon, the whole damn world will be one big fishing camp instead of camps warring against each other. (And SOME day, even worms and fish will be spared when all lures are artificial and don't have hooks so it will be a sporting exercise signaling that humanity and animals finally are at peace, too.)
I figure peace among all creatures of the is a case of the end justifying the means, so I went fishing to keep that tradition going for awhile, anyway.
Then I turned down the road to perdition, stealing these kid comments from whoever first compiled them for the Web, not to mention those who have irritated family, friends, and foes by forwarding them all over the globe.
The comments are represented as answers second-graders gave to questions about what God had in mind in creating moms. I don't know whether that's true or somebody made them up, but at least I'm being upfront about it:
Why did God make mothers?
1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is.
2. Mostly to clean the house.
3. To help us out of there when we were getting born.
How did God make mothers?
1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us.
2. Magic plus super powers and a lot of stirring.
3. God made my mom just the same like he made me. He just used bigger parts.
What ingredients are mothers made of?
1. God makes mothers out of clouds and angel hair and everything nice in the world — and one dab of mean.
2. They had to get their start from men's bones. Then they mostly use string, I think.
Why did God give you your mother and not some other mom?
1. We're related.
2. God knew she likes me a lot more than other people's moms like me.
What kind of a little girl was your mom?
1. My mom has always been my mom and none of that other stuff.
2. I don't know because I wasn't there, but my guess would be pretty bossy.
3. They say she used to be nice.
What did mom need to know about dad before she married him?
1. His last name.
2. She had to know his background. Like is he a crook? Does he get drunk on beer?
3. Does he make at least $800 a year? Did he say NO to drugs and YES to chores?
Why did your mom marry your dad?
1. My dad makes the best spaghetti in the world. And my mom eats a lot.
2. She got too old to do anything else with him.
3. My grandma says that mom didn't have her thinking cap on.
Who's the boss at your house?
1. Mom doesn't want to be boss, but she has to because dad's such a goof ball.
2. Mom. You can tell by room inspection. She sees the stuff under the bed.
3. I guess mom is, but only because she has a lot more to do than dad.
What's the difference between moms and dads?
1. Moms work at work and work at home and dads just go to work at work.
2. Moms know how to talk to teachers without scaring them.
3. Dads are taller and stronger, but moms have all the real power 'cause that's who you got to ask if you want to sleep over at your friends..
4. Moms have magic — they make you feel better without medicine.
What does your mom do in her spare time?
1. Mothers don't do spare time.
2. To hear her tell it, she pays bills all day long.
What would it take to make your mom perfect?
1. On the inside she's already perfect. Outside, I think some kind of plastic surgery.
2. Diet. You know, her hair. I'd diet, maybe blue.
If you could change one thing about your mom, what would it be?
1. She has this weird thing about me keeping my room clean. I'd get rid of that.
2. I'd make my mom smarter. Then she would know it was my sister who did it not me.
3. I would like for her to get rid of those invisible eyes on the back of her head.
I find it kind of amazing that, although many of those observations are gut-busters, many are spot on.
With that, I'll say: Happy Mother's Day to all you moms out there.
Let's end it with a message from comedian Jeff Dunham:
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Name Game: Amelia felia fo felia, AMELIA
I’m not sure whether Annie and Kevin chose a name for their bun in the oven because they actually wanted to right NOW, or they reached the tipping point (or boiling point) with my calling her Bun, or Bunny.
At any rate, pick the name they did and it is — drum roll, please: Amelia Tighe Kansy.
Annie tells me the Tighe is to keep the Tighe name alive. When I was a young lad in Nebraska, I thought the name was as rare as an honest game at a county fair side show. But when I got out in the world, I found it was as common as Smith (and honest side-show games remain as rare as snow in the Amazon jungle). Well, maybe not as common as Smith; Wesson, maybe, but not Smith.
Maybe I’d better say just that the name is a lot more common than I thought, and there even are several Mike Tighes. (I keep searching for a rich Tighe who’s willing to share with a slug of the same name, but haven’t found any yet.)
The name also reminds me of my cousin, Tighe. Tighe Ladd. Yup, that’s right, his parents gave him the first name of Tighe to honor Grandpa Doc and to Tighe one on to that branch of the tree.
I’ve got to admire Tighe because, although it’s an honorable and cool name, I bet he has endured the mangled pronunciations we all do. Every once in awhile, somebody gets it right, with just “TIE,” but others butcher it, to tig, tige, thigh, tig-HE, etc.
Fortunately, Amelia’s nickname will present no problem. Will it? Amy’s a no brainer. But some people spell it Amie. I suppose some my say Am, or AME.
Then Annie brought up a whole other possible tack: “We might call her Mel for short,” to throw people off.
Somehow, I suspect I’m the people they’d like to throw off the trail.
On the other hand, who would suspect that Annie’s first name is Antonia? Killed two birds with one stone with that one, honoring a friend named Antonia and another named Annie at the same time. Theoretically, since Annie is in the TV/film industry, she could nickname Amelia Mel as an homage to, say, f’rinstance, Mel Brooks of “Blazing Saddles” and other film fame.
On still another hand (how many hands do I HAVE?), Annie acknowledged the possibility that the name choice could change spontaneously. What if, for instance, the child pops out looking all the world like she should have a different name?
Such as, f’rinstance, Mongo in the same movie (apologies in advance for a couple of "s" words:
I HARDLY think that would be the case; I fully expect a delicate little flower who wouldn't THINK of cold-cocking an innocent old horse.
But, if she’s born on July 4, as scheduled, no telling WHAT they’ll call the little ladyfinger: Firecracker, Sparkle, Shooting Star, Caps or Snake. WAIT, I draw the line at Snake.
At any rate, pick the name they did and it is — drum roll, please: Amelia Tighe Kansy.
Annie tells me the Tighe is to keep the Tighe name alive. When I was a young lad in Nebraska, I thought the name was as rare as an honest game at a county fair side show. But when I got out in the world, I found it was as common as Smith (and honest side-show games remain as rare as snow in the Amazon jungle). Well, maybe not as common as Smith; Wesson, maybe, but not Smith.
Maybe I’d better say just that the name is a lot more common than I thought, and there even are several Mike Tighes. (I keep searching for a rich Tighe who’s willing to share with a slug of the same name, but haven’t found any yet.)
The name also reminds me of my cousin, Tighe. Tighe Ladd. Yup, that’s right, his parents gave him the first name of Tighe to honor Grandpa Doc and to Tighe one on to that branch of the tree.
I’ve got to admire Tighe because, although it’s an honorable and cool name, I bet he has endured the mangled pronunciations we all do. Every once in awhile, somebody gets it right, with just “TIE,” but others butcher it, to tig, tige, thigh, tig-HE, etc.
Fortunately, Amelia’s nickname will present no problem. Will it? Amy’s a no brainer. But some people spell it Amie. I suppose some my say Am, or AME.
Then Annie brought up a whole other possible tack: “We might call her Mel for short,” to throw people off.
Somehow, I suspect I’m the people they’d like to throw off the trail.
On the other hand, who would suspect that Annie’s first name is Antonia? Killed two birds with one stone with that one, honoring a friend named Antonia and another named Annie at the same time. Theoretically, since Annie is in the TV/film industry, she could nickname Amelia Mel as an homage to, say, f’rinstance, Mel Brooks of “Blazing Saddles” and other film fame.
On still another hand (how many hands do I HAVE?), Annie acknowledged the possibility that the name choice could change spontaneously. What if, for instance, the child pops out looking all the world like she should have a different name?
Such as, f’rinstance, Mongo in the same movie (apologies in advance for a couple of "s" words:
I HARDLY think that would be the case; I fully expect a delicate little flower who wouldn't THINK of cold-cocking an innocent old horse.
But, if she’s born on July 4, as scheduled, no telling WHAT they’ll call the little ladyfinger: Firecracker, Sparkle, Shooting Star, Caps or Snake. WAIT, I draw the line at Snake.
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Does God Know Jack on Easter?
It’s hard enough focusing kids on the religious significance of Christmas, amid all the greed-inducing hoopla about Santa, but it doesn’t hold an Easter candle to the Resurrection, with the bunny hopping around at the same time.
Christmas translates to a child’s mind, because they warm quickly to the idea of celebrating Jesus’ birthday. That makes it easier to turn their heads from Santa and piles of presents.
Then comes Easter, marking an even greater miracle than God becoming man: a god/man rising from the dead. When you tell young children that Easter celebrates Jesus’ Resurrection, be prepared for questions about why he died in the first place.
Melissa and Skip are big on making sure that the Four Children of the Apocalyptic toy pile DO know the religious meaning of these holidays. I’m not quite sure how they explained the Easter saga, but I found Jack’s reaction to the slightly erroneous explanation he picked up from a lesson at his Christian preschool jarringly frank and honest, as well as providing a theologically profound teaching moment.
“Mommy,” the 5-year-old said, “I just don’t understand why God would kill his son. That just doesn’t make any sense to me.”
I suppose I could write that off to Jack’s middle name of Thomas, making him a doubting Jack Thomas, but I think most of us have trouble wrapping our heads around the Resurrection, too.
Of course, we know God didn’t set out to kill his son, but we humans drove him to do so, to save us from ourselves. (Next time your kids or grandkids are driving you bonkers, you might put yourself in God’s place, having to deal with the shenanigans we humans pull.)
But the teaching moment is to tell the ankle biters that God sent his only son, and his only son embraced his painful and horrific death (with some misgivings when his human side voiced some balking prayers during his final prayers in the garden) because God loves us that much.
And, of course, GOD didn’t kill his son; our sins did. He died to wipe our slate clean, and he rose from the dead in a majestic victory over Satan and his works.
So, although Jack thought God didn’t know jack when this whole thing went down, he will come to understand more and more as he grows older and comes to know Jesus better that God loves him to pieces. Enough to let his son die for us. (Next time your kids or grandkids are driving you bonkers, you might reflect God’s love and turn that frown upside down in a loving smile.)
So it is that we celebrate Easter, Jesus’ victory over death, and his incredibly loving act of bestowing grace upon us.
Without mentioning any denominations, I would footnote that some folks often seem to miss the point of Easter, dwelling on the Crucifixion. They just won’t let Jesus off the cross.
On the other hand, some folks, most notably the Fellowship of Merry Christians (check the group out at http://www.joyfulnoiseletter.com/), recognize the pure joy of the day and like to mark Easter with holy humor. After all, they reason, Jesus’ Resurrection is the best practical joke EVER, with Satan the victim.
I bet Satan gnashes his teeth more than ever on Easter.
I haven’t kept a very good log of my grandkids funny sayings of late, but I would like to end this on a humorous note with a religious twist as well. And I just happen to have received a bunch of kids’ religious reflections via cyberspace. I’d credit whoever gathered the quotes (I could swear that some of them are jokes in themselves that I’ve heard) but cyberspace often is so anonymous. (I just wanted to make it clear that I’m not plagiarizing purposely, as that’s the kind of theft that contributed to Jesus’ pain.)
Sooooooo, in the spirit of the day, I offer these anecdotes about kids in church:
* 3-year-old Reese renders this malapropped version of the Lord’s prayer: “Our Father, Who does art in heaven, Harold is His name. Amen.”
* A little boy was overheard praying: 'Lord, if you can't make me a better boy, don't worry about it. I'm having a real good time like I am.”
* After the christening of his baby brother in church,
Jason sobbed all the way home in the back seat of the car.
His father asked him three times what was wrong.
Finally, the boy replied, “That preacher said he wanted us brought up in a Christian home, and I wanted to stay with you guys.”
* Another prayerful malaprop from a 4-year-old — “And forgive us our trash baskets as we forgive those who put trash in our baskets.”
* A Sunday school teacher asked her children as they
were on the way to church service, “And why is it necessary to be quiet in church?”
An observant, and honest-to-a-fault little girl replied, “Because people are sleeping.”
* A woman was preparing pancakes for her sons, 5-year-old Kevin and 3-year-old Ryan, when the lads began to argue over who would get the first pancake.
The mom saw the opportunity for a moral lesson, so she said, “If Jesus were sitting here, he would say, 'Let my brother have the first pancake. I can wait.' ”
Kevin turned to his younger brother and said, “Ryan, you be Jesus!”
* A man was at the beach with his children when the 4-year-old son ran up to him, grabbed his hand, and led him to the shore where a seagull lay dead in the sand.
“Daddy, what happened to him?” the son asked.
“He died and went to heaven,” the dad replied.
The boy thought a moment and then said,
“Did God throw him back down?”
*And we’ll wrap it up with another reflection of why we have to be careful what we say around young ears.
A woman who had invited several people to dinner turned to her 6-year-old daughter and said, “Would you like to say the blessing?”
“ I wouldn't know what to say,” the girl replied.
“Just say what you hear Mommy say,” the woman answered.
So the girl bowed her head and said, “Lord, why on earth did I invite all these people to dinner?”
Ba-da-BUMP. That could be the last supper the girl is asked to pray, eh?
Again, Happy Easter out there. May the awesome grace of a loving God be with you.
Christmas translates to a child’s mind, because they warm quickly to the idea of celebrating Jesus’ birthday. That makes it easier to turn their heads from Santa and piles of presents.
Then comes Easter, marking an even greater miracle than God becoming man: a god/man rising from the dead. When you tell young children that Easter celebrates Jesus’ Resurrection, be prepared for questions about why he died in the first place.
Melissa and Skip are big on making sure that the Four Children of the Apocalyptic toy pile DO know the religious meaning of these holidays. I’m not quite sure how they explained the Easter saga, but I found Jack’s reaction to the slightly erroneous explanation he picked up from a lesson at his Christian preschool jarringly frank and honest, as well as providing a theologically profound teaching moment.
“Mommy,” the 5-year-old said, “I just don’t understand why God would kill his son. That just doesn’t make any sense to me.”
I suppose I could write that off to Jack’s middle name of Thomas, making him a doubting Jack Thomas, but I think most of us have trouble wrapping our heads around the Resurrection, too.
Of course, we know God didn’t set out to kill his son, but we humans drove him to do so, to save us from ourselves. (Next time your kids or grandkids are driving you bonkers, you might put yourself in God’s place, having to deal with the shenanigans we humans pull.)
But the teaching moment is to tell the ankle biters that God sent his only son, and his only son embraced his painful and horrific death (with some misgivings when his human side voiced some balking prayers during his final prayers in the garden) because God loves us that much.
And, of course, GOD didn’t kill his son; our sins did. He died to wipe our slate clean, and he rose from the dead in a majestic victory over Satan and his works.
So, although Jack thought God didn’t know jack when this whole thing went down, he will come to understand more and more as he grows older and comes to know Jesus better that God loves him to pieces. Enough to let his son die for us. (Next time your kids or grandkids are driving you bonkers, you might reflect God’s love and turn that frown upside down in a loving smile.)
So it is that we celebrate Easter, Jesus’ victory over death, and his incredibly loving act of bestowing grace upon us.
Without mentioning any denominations, I would footnote that some folks often seem to miss the point of Easter, dwelling on the Crucifixion. They just won’t let Jesus off the cross.
On the other hand, some folks, most notably the Fellowship of Merry Christians (check the group out at http://www.joyfulnoiseletter.com/), recognize the pure joy of the day and like to mark Easter with holy humor. After all, they reason, Jesus’ Resurrection is the best practical joke EVER, with Satan the victim.
I bet Satan gnashes his teeth more than ever on Easter.
I haven’t kept a very good log of my grandkids funny sayings of late, but I would like to end this on a humorous note with a religious twist as well. And I just happen to have received a bunch of kids’ religious reflections via cyberspace. I’d credit whoever gathered the quotes (I could swear that some of them are jokes in themselves that I’ve heard) but cyberspace often is so anonymous. (I just wanted to make it clear that I’m not plagiarizing purposely, as that’s the kind of theft that contributed to Jesus’ pain.)
Sooooooo, in the spirit of the day, I offer these anecdotes about kids in church:
* 3-year-old Reese renders this malapropped version of the Lord’s prayer: “Our Father, Who does art in heaven, Harold is His name. Amen.”
* A little boy was overheard praying: 'Lord, if you can't make me a better boy, don't worry about it. I'm having a real good time like I am.”
* After the christening of his baby brother in church,
Jason sobbed all the way home in the back seat of the car.
His father asked him three times what was wrong.
Finally, the boy replied, “That preacher said he wanted us brought up in a Christian home, and I wanted to stay with you guys.”
* Another prayerful malaprop from a 4-year-old — “And forgive us our trash baskets as we forgive those who put trash in our baskets.”
* A Sunday school teacher asked her children as they
were on the way to church service, “And why is it necessary to be quiet in church?”
An observant, and honest-to-a-fault little girl replied, “Because people are sleeping.”
* A woman was preparing pancakes for her sons, 5-year-old Kevin and 3-year-old Ryan, when the lads began to argue over who would get the first pancake.
The mom saw the opportunity for a moral lesson, so she said, “If Jesus were sitting here, he would say, 'Let my brother have the first pancake. I can wait.' ”
Kevin turned to his younger brother and said, “Ryan, you be Jesus!”
* A man was at the beach with his children when the 4-year-old son ran up to him, grabbed his hand, and led him to the shore where a seagull lay dead in the sand.
“Daddy, what happened to him?” the son asked.
“He died and went to heaven,” the dad replied.
The boy thought a moment and then said,
“Did God throw him back down?”
*And we’ll wrap it up with another reflection of why we have to be careful what we say around young ears.
A woman who had invited several people to dinner turned to her 6-year-old daughter and said, “Would you like to say the blessing?”
“ I wouldn't know what to say,” the girl replied.
“Just say what you hear Mommy say,” the woman answered.
So the girl bowed her head and said, “Lord, why on earth did I invite all these people to dinner?”
Ba-da-BUMP. That could be the last supper the girl is asked to pray, eh?
Again, Happy Easter out there. May the awesome grace of a loving God be with you.
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